How to Lead

Ep #119: How to NOT Get Offended

Have you noticed that when people feel offended, they’re often offensive in response? That’s not effective, and it’s certainly not leadership. When you have the positional authority in a relationship, it’s incumbent upon you to be the one who is cautious and thoughtful about the words you use. Here’s how: What you’ll learn from this…

Tools for Every Day Leaders

Ep #92: Managerial Courage

Courage, from the root word “cor” or “heart” is to speak the truth of what’s in your heart. Our inability to tap that courage, because we may be vulnerable if we do, limits our capability as leaders. What you’ll learn from this episode: We have many opportunities to step into our leadership role and speak…

Join Me at The Beach?

 Every year, I offer an intimate, exclusive coaching intensive on-the-beach for the women in my community. It’s call ‘She is Relentless’. To say the work we do together is powerful; while sitting on the beach, under the pines, on the nature preserve that surrounds the Turtle Bay Resort, is such an understatement. Some have gone so…

Leaders with Imposter Syndrome

I’ve worked with a lot of leaders lately who share a common thought. They believe they haven’t really earned their role. Or they believe that they really don’t know what they’re doing and eventually someone will find them out. They compare themselves to other people in similar roles or who have similar titles and they…

Stop It

Stop it. Stop waiting for other people to make decisions before you decide your own future. Example: “I need to wait and see if I’m going to get that promotion and then I’ll decide what to do.” Decide: do you want the promotion? If so, why? What will the promotion in this company bring you…

Tools for Every Day Leaders

Ep #48: Burden Versus Choice

Leaders often have to do things they don’t like to do. We think we shouldn’t have to deal with things we don’t want to deal with and that what we have to deal with is outside our jobs. Here’s how changing your thinking can change what you’re feeling. What you’ll learn from this episode: How…